Accord Northern Ireland Catholic Marriage Care Service
Company Limited by Guarantee
Trustees. Annual Report (Incorporating Ihe Director's Report)
Year ended 31 March 2023
The trustees, who are also the directors for the purposes ol company law, present their report and the
financial statements of the charity for the year ended 31 March 2023.
Chalr's report
Reference and admlnistrative delails
Regislered charity name
Accord Northern Ireland Catholic Marriage Care Service
Charity registration number
NIC102332
Company reglstralion number N1627165
Principal office and registered Cana House
off ice
St Mary's Church. Chaple Lane
Grotto Entrance
1 st Floor. 68 Berry Slreet
Belfast
BT1 1FJ
The trustees
Archbishop Eamon Marlin
Archbishop Noel Treanor
Bishop Michael Router
Bishop Donal McKeown
Bishop Lawerence Duffy
Mrs C O'Loan
Mr P McGuinness
Mrs G Loughran
(Resigned 20 January 2023)
Company secretary
Deirdre O'Rawe
Audltor
Hill Vellacott
Chartered accountants & statutory auditor
22 Great Victoria Street
Belfast
BT2 7BA

Accord Northern Ireland Catholic Marriage Care Service
Company Limited by Guarantee
Trustees. Annual Report (Incorporating the Director's Report) (contlnued)
Year ended 31 March 2023
Struclure, governance and management
Accord Nl has centres across N. Ireland with its Regional Office based in Belfast. This year the
company was fully operational wilh a central administration- account payment processes were
effectively implemented and reviewed. In 2022123, the company had 2 full time and 2 part-time
employees, 50 volunteers, and 6 in training. The Board of Trustees mel on a quarterly basis and the
day-to-day operations are delegated to the Regional Director. Accord Northern Ireland CLG Catholic
Marriage Care SeNice has 8 regional centres in Belfast, Derry, Armagh. Newry, Maghera. Omagh,
Ballymena and Enniskillen. with outreach centres in Downpatrick Icrossgar). Coleraine and the Nl
Regional Off ice in Belfast.
Oblectlves and activllles
Accord Nl is an agency of the Catholic Church providing a service to couples preparing for or seeking
a deeper commitmenl within the Sacrament of Marriage. Accord Nl's services are open to all
regardless of faith, denomination or none. Services are provided, based on client need rather than
abilily to pay. In the Marriage Education Programme. couples are invited to explore and reflect on the
essential elements of their marriage and the purpose and value of their choices within a committed
relationship. Accord Nl specialises in Inter-church marriage preparation and works with clergy from the
other main denominalions. Relationship counselling is provided for couples, as well as individuals in a
couple relationship. in a caring and confidential manner.
People who benefit from our work are-
Those whose ability to communicate in marriage is enhanced in marriage preparation.
Those who learn through counselling to cope with, what on their own, would be over-whelming
challenges in their relationships.,
Those who avail of the fertility and wellbeing service;
The children, parents and teachers who benefit from the pioneering work in relationships and
sexuality education in schools.
Those who are helped Ihrough counselling to separate amicably and to minimise the
consequential damage to their children.

Accord Northern Ireland Catholic Marriage Care Service
Company Limited by Guarantee
Trustees, Annual Report (Incorporating the Director's Report) (conNnu8d)
Year ended 31 March 2023
Objectives and activitles (continued)
Accord Nl's counselling service contributes in a very positive way to the happiness and well-being of
many children, often very significantly, when their parents seek help in order to resolve their
relationship difficulties. As a pastoral seNice based on gospel values, Accord Nl seeks to support and
strengthen marriages, relationships and families. Research clearly shows that inter-parental conflict
can damage intimate relationships and cause disruption in family life. This is even more critical for
children living in situations of domestic violence or abuse. The family is necessary for the stability of
society as a unit in which children. Ihe future generalion, are nurtured, cared for and reared into
adulthood. Emotionally unhealthy or dysfunclional families find the lask of rearing and enabling
children to be balanced and happy quite challenging and difficult. Because of the importance of the
family for the life and well-being of society, it is essential that Accord Nl continues to work to provide
the necessary supports to strengthen marriage and the family.
Accord Nl's work falls within activities mandated by the Department of Health, Family and Children's
Policy Directorate. In addition, the aims of the organisation dovetail with and compliment the
Government's Families Matter - Supporting Families in Northern Ireland {2008). This strategy supports
Ihe aims and objectives of another strategy - 'Our Children and Young People, Our Pledge,
which
sets out the vision for improving supporl for families and children.
With 11 locations throughout Northern Ireland, Accord Nl strives to be as accessible as possible and to
reach out to those most marginalised in our society. The vast majority of people who avail from our
services could not afford counselling within the private sector. An additional direct benefit is that
helping families to remain togelher reduces the cost to the exchequer.
Stralegic report
The following sections for achievements and performance and financial review form the strategic
report of the charity.
Achievements and performance
Accord Marriage Education Facilitators offered support and delivered marriage preparation to 2,009
couples. Both face-to-face and the adapted Virtual Interaclive Marriage Preparation programme
developed in 2020 continued to provide an opportunity for couples. including inter-church couples,
preparing for sacramental marriage and was enthusiastically delivered by our facilitalors. There were
1,289 hours ot marriage and relationship counselling provided both in-person and online.
Communication
220/0 noted that they and their partner were never or seldom able to talk and listen to each other
340/. felt they were always or often ignored or not listened lo by their partner
150/0 reported that they always or often ignored or did not listen to their partner
230/. felt they were alway5 or often criticised or insulted by their partner
1 Oyo reported that they always or often criticise their partner
14 % felt they were always or often belittled or put down by their partner
4Vo reported that they always or often belittled or put down Iheir partner.

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Company Limited by Guarantee
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Achievements and performance (continued)
Problematic Behaviour
130/0 reported their own or their partner's use of alcohol was always or often problematic
3 % reported their own or their partner's use of drugs was always or often problematic
2 % reported their own or their partner's gambling was always or often problematic
16 % reported their own or their partnerfs use of the phoneAexling. internet or social media always or
often caused problems
21 /0 reported that trust in the relationship was always or often affected by problem behaviours.
Inllmacy
34 /0 reported that they never or seldom experienced closeness and affection with their partner
47 /. described their sexual relationship as eilher absent. poor or very poor
100/0 reported difficulty always or often having sex
7•/0 reported their partner always or often having concerns about another close, physical, or emotional
relalionship of theirs
9•/0 reported always or often having concerns about another close, physical, or emotional relationship
ol their partner's.
Family Issues
19°/o reported that childcare and home duties always and often caused problems in the relationship
21°/o reported problems between them and their own or their partnerfs extended family always or often
50/0 reported issues of culture, religious beliefs or values often or always caused difliculties between
them and their partner
18°/o reported bereavement, other loss or grief experienced by them or their partner affected their
relalionship always or often
22°/o reported that either they or their partner always or often experienced depression
26°/o reported that finances and financial management always or often caused problems between
them.
Confllct
49°/o reported they always, repeatedly or often argued with their partner
230/0 reported that arguments are never resolved calmly
490/0 reported that arguments are sometimes resolved calmly
350/0 reported that they or their partner always, repeatedly or often yelled or shouted during arguments
20/0 reported that they or their partner always, repeatedly or often throw things during arguments.

Accord Northern Ireland Catholic Marriage Care Service
Company Limited by Guarantee
Trustees. Annual Report (Incorporating the Director's Report) (¢ontlnuedJ
Year ended 31 March 2023
Achievements and performance (¢onlinued)
CPD for counsellors Included:
An Introduction to Addiction in Couples Work,
Sharing Best Practice,
- Taking Stock - Moving Forward,
Training for Accord counsellors who made themselves available lo take cases who present with
issues linked to their role as host families for Ukrainian refugees, A Master Class in Family Therapy
Skills covering An Overview of Family Therapy.Skills used in Family Therapy. Genograms. Family
Dynamics, Blended Families, Step Families. Co-Parenting and Parental Alienation
CPD for facilitators included:
Facilitator Training in the delivery of Ihe new Marriage Educalion Programme.- Exploring the Church's
teaching on the Sacrament of Marriage
During this year, the Board has begun a fundamental review of the work and luture direction of Accord
{Nl). This has involved consultation with facilitators and counsellors through a s￿￿eY (February 20221.
The Board understood that for many counsellors and facilitators the principal motivation for
involvement in Accord is lo be of service to the Catholic and to the wider community. However. the
Board in recognition of the hours of dedicated and professional service which have been provided by
our facilitators and counsellors- several of whom have been with us for many years considered a new
way of recognising financially the role of our counsellors and facilitators. The Board's decision was to
offer to every facililator and counsellor a contract as a worker with effect from 1 September 2022.
Under the new contractual arrangements, facilitators and counsellors chose to work some or all of their
hours on a voluntary basis.
Flnanclal review
Accord Northern Ireland Marriage Care Service obtains finance from a number of sources,. primarily
grant support from the Department of Health and the northern dioceses. as well as marriage
preparalion courses, and preperation programmes.
As of 1 st May 2016, the Accord Regional Office and the 9 eentres ceased to operate individually and
all resources were translerred inlo the bank accounts of Accord Northern Ireland Catholic Marriage
Care Service. Since then, all funds have been lodged into and all expenses have been paid from
accounts operaled under the narne of the Accord Nl CLG.

Accord Northern Ireland Catholic Marriage Care Service
Company Limited by Guarantee
Trustees. Annual Report (Incorporating the Director's Report) (contlnuedj
Year ended 31 March 2023
Plans for future perlods
Implementation of the new Accord Marriage Preparation Programme and rolling out training for all
Marriage Education Facilitators.
The development of a Certificale in Couple Counselling in partnership with Marriage Care UK.
Selection and Training of Couple Counselling Supervisors.
A Synodal Reflection on the Challenges facing the fulure of the Service of the Catholic Church in
supporting Marriage, Relationships and Families through Marriage Preparation and
accompanying Couples in their relationship difficulties.
Supporting priests in completing the final slage of the Marriage Preparation Programme.
Piloting of a new Marriage Education Facilitator Supervision Model.
Review of Child Safeguarding and Domestic Abuse policies.
Trustees. responsibilities statement
The trustees, who are also directors lor the purposes of company law, are responsible for preparing
the trustees. report and the linancial statements in accordance with applicable law and Uniled Kingdom
Accounting Standards (United Kingdom Generally Accepted Accounting Practice).
Company law requires the charity trustees to prepare financial statements for each year which give a
true and fair view of the state of affairs of the charitable company and the incoming resources and
application of resources, including the income and expenditure. for that period.
In preparing these financial statements, the trustees are required to..
select suitable accounting policies and then apply them consistent5y',
observe the melhods and principles in the applicable Charities SORP.
make judgments and accounting estimates that are reasonable and prudent.
state whether applicable UK Accounting Standards have been followed, subject to any material
departures disclosed and explained in the financial statements.
prepare the financial statements on the going concern basis unless it is inappropriate to presume
that the charity will continue in business.

Accord Northern Ireland Catholic Marriage Care Service
Company Limited by Guarantee
Trustees, Annual Report (Incorporating the Director's Report) fcontlnued)
Year ended 31 March 2023
The Irustees are responsible for keeping adequate accounting records that are suflicient to show and
explain the charivs transaclions and disclose with reasonable accuracy at any time Ihe financial
position of the charity and enable them to ensure that the financial statements comply with Ihe
Companies Act 2006. They are also responsible for safeguarding the assets of the charity and hence
for taking reasonable steps for the prevention and detection of fraud and other irregularities.
Auditor
Each of the persons who is a trustee at the date of approval of this report confirms Ihat:
so far as they are aware, there is no relevant audit information of which the charitls auditor is
unaware., and
they have taken all steps that they ought to have laken as a trustee to make themselves aware of
any relevant audil information and to establish that the charity's auditor is aware of that
information.
The trustees, annual report and the strategic report were approved on 14 November 2023 and signed
on behalf of the board of trustees by..
Archbishop Eamon Martin
Trustee
Deirdre O'Rawe
Charity Secretary