Trustees Report Families Beyond Conflict
1. Name of Charity
Families Beyond Conflict
2. Address
WMC
260 Cambrai Street
Belfast
Co.Antrim
BT13 3JJ
3. Nl Charity Commission Number
Charity Number: NIC101840
4. The Purpose of the Charity
Families Beyond Conflict was established to build the capacity of the community of
the socially and economically disadvantaged greater Shankill area of Belfast. By
promoting leaming experiences to increase the skills, abilities and confidence of
individuals and groups FBC empowers them to trust, combat exclusion and
marginalisation and create a sense of belonging. Families Beyond Conflict puts in
place support systems, strategies and mechanisms to encourage and facilitate a
healing process with the object of bridge building leading to reconciliation within the
entire community and beyond.
S. Charity Trustees
Mrs Caroline Moffett: Chairperson
Mr Anthony Clarke: Treasurer
Mr Nicholas Magee: Secretary
Mrs Marie MCNie￿. Member
Mrs Winifred Mcconnell: Member
Mrs Catherine Bickerstaff: Member
6. Financial year of relevance of this trustee report
1st April 2022 to 31st March 2023
7. Summary of the Charity's main activities to further its purposes for the
public benefit
During the period 1st April 2022 - 31st March 2023 Families Beyond Conflict
delivered the following services to the following numbers of clients.

Work Area.
Planned Outputs at 1st Aprfl .
2022
Actual at 31st mar.ch 2023
Health and Wellbeing
Complimentary
Therapies
32 clients - 192 sessions
32 clients - 192 sessions
Social Support
Monday Women's
Group
12 Women over 65
13 Women over 65
Men's Group
12 Men
17 Men
Young Mum's Group
12 Young Mothers
13 Young Mothers
Thursday Women's
Group
12 Women over 55
13 Women over 55
Family Bonding
Scheme
20 young people115 adults
20 young people117 adults
Monday Women's
Group 2
9 women
9 women
Lived Experience
Project
23 women
23 Women
FBC Drop-in Centre
Open 8.30am- 5.00pm Mon-Fri
Open 8.30am - 5.00pm Mon-Fri
Families Beyond Conflict have provided the following programmes
Health and Well Being
Complimentary Therapies
FBC completed a 4 runs of 6 x 1 hour sessions for 32 clients, each over a 6-week
period during the course of the year
The total of therapies carried out in this financial year was 192 for 32 unique
individuals. FBC hosted the therapy clinic 2 afternoons each week, in our new therapy
room in the Woodvale Methodist Church grounds. The programme is run by a single
Therapist through our partner group the Centre of Health and Wellbeing she is very
experienced and popular with the clients. For each client she assesses their needs
and administers the most appropriate course of therapies to best meet them. She also
promotes the benefits of a healthier lifestyle by providing clients with information,
advice, and handouts. The clients take an active role in deciding what therapy they
receive. this enhan￿S their feelings of being in control of their moods and emotions -
something few have on a daily basis. Our aim continues to be to calm negative

emotions and improved positive emotions and to demonstrate how making life-
changing choices can greatly benefit physical and mental health, particularly at a time
when many clients are worried about the current economic climate when many are
experiencing anxiety around the huge increases in cost of living. Those who took part
greatly benefitted from the therapies. the majority found them to be effective in
reducing stress and anxiety and reducing symptoms of depression as well as
improving sleep.
We have been using the MYMOP recording method which proved a valuable asset in
confirming the positive impact the therapies have. The demand for therapies continues
to be high.
Social Support
Monday Group
The programme continues to meet all its aims and objectives. This group is made up
of 13 women aged over 65 years who are struggling to deal with the stress and trauma
as a result of the Conflict in Northem Ireland. A new member joined in April to replace
one who left due to ill health.
In the first quarter the group met on 13 Mondays, in the second quarter met a further
12 Mondays, in the 3rd quarter there were 11 meetings and, in the final quarter, a further
11 totalling 47 meetings for the year to the end of March. They also took part in 3
respite trips with the Thursday morning group. In mid-June the joint group of 22 ladies
spent the day together, initially calling into Dobbies Garden Centre in Lisburn for
shopping and coffee, then headed to St Patricks Cathedral in Armagh for a guided tour
of the Church of Ireland building. The group had previously visited the Roman Catholic
Cathedral and interesting comparisons were made. The group then travelled onto
Banbridge for lunch (and a natter). In October 20 ladies from the 2 groups greatly
enjoyed a weekend residential in the Adair Arms, Ballymena. This, now traditional
residential, is self-funded, they save weekly, and a nominated member is given
responsibility for recording and banking the savings, this has the added benefit of
encouraging the ladies to budget and save. The residential is the highlight of their
year and they enjoy shopping and time together playing games and bingo and enjoy
the entertainment in the hotel and spending an extended time together. The sharing
of time with the ladies from the Thursday group greatly enhances their experiences
and enables them to develop new friendships.
Arts and Crafts continues to be the most popular aspect of their programme. We were
lucky to secure funding in the first quarter to enable the group to take part in a 4-week
programme where they tried some new and different craft techniques including
printing, felt making, weaving and jewellery making.
During the second quarter the group took part in a 4-week programme of reminisces.
As part of our Wednesday groups OCN accredited programme at the beginning of the
year there was a session exploring social lives in the 40's 50's and 60's. The ladies
in this group eXperIen￿d those times and it was considered that revisiting happy times
of their youth would be a worthwhile programme which would serve to lighten their

mood and irnprove their well-being. An outside facilitator was invited to oversee the
programme as it is beneficial to the ladies to have someone new to lead sessions and
introduce a different perspective. The group really enjoyed the project and were able
to share stories about their childhoods, school, socialising, fashion, and special events
in their lives like their weddings and special times with their families. The sessions
were really heartening and there were many stories shared and there was a real focus
on the positive even though many experienced a very poor childhood with little money.
During the period the group also decoupaged pots and planted cacti and did diamond
painting.
During quarter 3 the ladies enjoyed more arts and crafts and focussed on Christmas
crafts, they also had several bingo sessions which they really enjoy as well as other
games. The group joined the Thursday ladies for Christmas lunch in the Lansdowne
Hotel on 9th De￿Mber- 19 ladies were present and once again enjoyed their time
together.
In quarter 4 alongside the usual quizzes, bingo sessions and games the group enjoyed
some relaxing adult colouring sessions and made keyrings using diamond painting, a
craft media they enjoy as it is a fairly simple process, and they take away something
tangible. The group have been busy this quarter with several trips out. They enjoyed
a respite trip to Colmans Garden Centre in Templepatrick followed by lunch at the
Rabbit restaurant. In February the group took part in a cookery session at a local
church on the Shankill Road, the session was excellent and led by a former baker
whose sense of humour made the session all the more enjoyable. They each made 2
loaves of bread and had homemade soup and freshly baked baps for lunch. Then to
finish the year in March, the group headed to the outlet shopping Centre in Banbridge
for some retail therapy and then into Banbridge for a late lunch. This activity was also
run with the Thursday morning group where once again friendships were renewed and
developed, and they thoroughly enjoyed their time together.
As previously reported the group are aging, and attendance is not always the 80-1000/0
we have regularly achieved over the past few years. Many are struggling with health
issues that affect their mobility and general well-being. It is difficult to organise
appropriate respite trips that are comfortable and suitable for a group of ladies whose
abilities are so varied and whose needs are diverse. The type of activity is carefully
chosen to ensure as many can attend as possible, and we were delighted only 1 lady
. wasn't able to attend the last respite trip in March.
Thursday Group
The programme has met all its aims and objectives. The Thursday group is made up
of 12 ladies over 60, who have had 48 meetings in this financial year as well as taking
part in the respite trip to Armagh with the Monday group, the residential in Ballyrnena
above. They also enjoyed the same craft programme as the Monday group and the
reminiscen￿ programme which they too really enjoyed and Christmas Lunch in the
Lansdowne hotel (SeeAbove) the group greatly appreciated the bread making session
as the Monday ladies had and then the final respite trip of the year was with the
Monday group to Banbridge as described above. They took part in Christmas crafts in

November and December. This group also took part in crochet lessons which were
run by one of the Monday ladies, they had requested this activity for some time and
were pleased we had time to fit it in the schedule. They too also enjoyed decoupaging
pots and planting cacti, diamond painting and the usual bingo, quizzes, and games.
Attendance has been good with this group as, like the Monday group they are aging
and less able but have not been hit by the illnesses the Monday group experienced
this year.
Mothers Group
This group of 13 Mum's who have children or grandchildren at school has developed
to become an intergenerational group, including 4 sets of Mums and daughters and
an even balance of members in their 30140's and 60's. In the past the group only met
during term time as many were involved in the family summer programme, this year
they continued to meet all summer as the demand to meet was very high and a further
12 meetings took place in the second quarter totalling 48 meetings in this financial
year.
The group went on their first respite trip of the year in August as they had been so
busy with their education programme. Childcare commitments limit the group in terms
of the type and timing of any trips they May be able to go on, but they went to lunch
and enjoyed a lovely time together. In the first quarter the group took part in a 4-week
craft programme, where they decorated jewellery boxes, made bra￿lets, did needle
felting, etching and made decorations to celebrate the Queens platinum jubilee. The
group completed an OCN Accredited training programme in September which lasted
for 8 weeks, entitled discovering woman's identity in Northern Ireland. They then
completed another programme exploring Celtic myths and legends which lasted until
mid-November, this was not accredited but they enjoy this self-development aspect of
the programme and found this programme enjoyable and discovered much they were
not aware of which is part of their shared heritage. We have been very fortunate to
secure these accredited and non-accredited programmes for free. The group also had
workshop exploring sexuality run by the Rainbow Project. Some of our members
are dealing with family situations around non-binary issues and it had come up in
discussion several times, the workshop was extremely well presented and provided
some clarity about definition of terms such as non-binary and gender fluid. It helped
the Project Manager better understand the definitions should any other members in
any group come to her with concerns.
In quarter 3 the group also spent time decorating Christmas Eve children's gift boxes
and some other Christmas Arts and Crafts as well as enjoying the usual quizzes and
bingo. The group went out together independent of FBC for their Christmas dinner but
enjoyed a game of Christmas "Stop the bus. and a Christmas Chip for their last
meeting of the year.
Starting in January, the group took part in a new accredited programme (level 2)
looking at the influence of women in Northern Ireland politics and the rights of Women
in different countries. They also explored Bills of Rights of several different countries
and discussed their differences. Over the past 2 years this group have qualifications.

Not one member had previously gained a single academic qualification. The
programme has greatly developed them on a personal level and undertaken 4
accredited training programmes 1 at level 1 and 3 at level 2, they have totally
embraced the opportunity to "study" and gain increased Se￿-eSteern and confidence.
Two members have taken on part-time employment, and another is considering going
back into education. This year's programme has been a triumph as the members
realised how much they could achieve, and that leaming can be fun.
The group took part in 2 respite trips in quarter 4 - they faced and beat escape rooms
in a fun activity which had 2 teams trying to solve problems and puzzles to discover
how to escape the rooms (and save Belfast from atomic annihilation). There was a
deal of competition but taken in good spirit. The group also enjoyed a meal together.
In March the group also enjoyed another meal together and their final get together was
a residential in the AdairArms, Ballymena. This was self-funded., the ladies saved each
week and chose the venue. Attendan￿ is rarely below 100 % which is a tribute to the
programme as well as a real indication of the need for the programme and the huge
benefit the participants gain from it. It is particularly pleasing that most have become
very good friends and share time together outside of FBC. It has contributed greatly
to alleviating their social isolation and providing them with the confidence to outside
their comfort zones and explore many things they would never have considered in the
past.
Cross-community Group (Thursday)
This group is made up of 10 women from the Shankill area. These women originally
came together as part of a VSS cross-community programme, in conjunction with 10
women from the Centre of Health and Wellbeing in Whiterock. It was due to run until
March 2020 but was cut short before itwas concluded by the lockdown and the funding
had to be repaid to VSS. The demand for the programme was high and the FBC group
met in a single identity situation from April at the conclusion of a cross-community
programme which ended in March 2022 following a successful funding bid to the
Lottery Awards forAII. They met 8 times bet￿een April and May. There was a break
from this programme as FBC were awarded funding for a Lived Experiences
programme and membership is made up, in the majority by members of this group,
This group started to meet again on Thursday 6 October on a programme looking at
the legacy of the conflict. The initial stage of the programme lasted 5 weeks and the
members explored how the Conflict had affected them and their families and the
impact it had on their lives. They also took part in Christmas craft sessions and had a
party on their last day together before Christmas.
This programme continued in JanuarylFebruary when the group met up with a cross
community group with the aim of expressing the legacy in the form of a stage
performance, unfortunately this was not concluded as the other group dropped out of
the programme. While this was disappointing the members gained invaluable
experience in writing pieces and comparing the legacy of the troubles from a loyalist
and republican perspective, which essentially is very similar. This programme has

been provided for FBC for free- and it was a great opportunity for the members of this
group to experien￿ another new activity which serves to greatly increase their
confidence and self-esteem. The group continued to meet until the end of the year
and took part in a respite trip to the Escape rooms which they thoroughly enjoyed.
This group will continue to meet into the next financial year where it is hoped to secure
some funding for a cross-community programme.
Monday Group 2
Following a successful request for a budget virement a new group was initiated on 7th
November to meet on the first Monday afternoon of each month. This group is currently
made up of 9 women who are victims and survivors and were on the FBC waiting list.
It is anticipated a further 3 (to bring the group up to 12 members) will join over the next
few months. It has been a long time aim to redu￿ the waiting list. initially however, it
is likely the group will meet monthly as the Project Manager is a lone worker with
limited time, but it is planned to encourage participants to lead up sessions enhancing
their skills, personal development and Confiden￿ and the aim is to increase the
frequency of meetings. Therefore, at this stage the group have met up on 5 occasions,
the first was a getting to know you session and the second was a craft session where
the members made Christmas lanterns. After Christmas the group played a game of
stop the bus in January, which was a lot of fun, in February they enjoyed an afternoon
tea which was delivered to FBC. The ladies enjoyed the food and feasted on sausage
rolls, chicken goujons, and sandwiches, scones with jam and cream and tray bakes.
In March a member of the group demonstrated, and the members practiced, screen
printing. This will be continued into April when the group will decorate Tote Bags. FBC
is delighted to have the opportunity to reduce the waiting list and increase its work with
some of the most vulnerable women in the Shankill area, separate funding will be
sourced to develop this group more and hopefully enable thern to meet more often.
Tuesday Group
The agreed funding virement with VSS also enabled FBC to run a 6 weeklong
programme focussing on a mixed media art project. Through reminiscence, working
with clay, mosaic and storytelling, each participant created a display piece which told
a story through a fusion of image and text. The mixed media approach ensured that
there was something for everyone with activities adapted where necessary for our
differently abled older people. We aimed to create a combination of individual and
group artwork with a fun, positive energy - the project encompassed the 5 steps to
wellbeing. This project involved at least 8 unique new participants as well 3 who are
currently involved in other programmes and who have been identified as needing extra
support at this time. The project ComMen￿d on 8 November and ran for 6 weeks to
13 December. .It was extremely successful, and the resulting pieces were very
professional and satisfying for the participants. They gained great benefit from their
participation, and it is hoped this group may come back together for another project in
the future - much will depend on identifying a suitable programme at a suitable cost.

Lived Experience
Lived Experiences was a creative writing project designed to produce an anthology of
new writing from women Sur￿1V0rS and a digitised performance designed to be used
as both a learning tool and a work of art. Families Beyond Conflict (Shankill) wort(ed
with long-term partners the Centre of Health and Wellbeing (Upper Springfield) in
developing this project. The 23 women, who were involved had been adversely and
negatively impacted by the legacy of the Northern Irish Conflict and it gave a platform
and opportunity for expression for those who felt their stories had gone unheard or
ignored. The programme focused on delivering a series of creative writing classes. It
had a strong good relations focus and was specifically targeting those who have
perceived barriers because of their culture and identity. We engaged Prime Cut
Productions to provide an experienced creative writing facilitator to work with
participants, encouraging them to share their experiences and draw out their stories
to create a series of monologues. These monologues formed the basis of a printed
anthology and the screenplay for a digitised performance. The anthology included
images chosen by the participants they felt represent their feelings, opinions, and
aspirations. The digitised performance lasts approximately 10 minutes and features a
chosen selection of the monologues delivered by the participants themselves, with
provision made for those who feel uncomfortable doing so not to be photographed.
Anonymity is fully provided for those who feel more comfortable with it. Once filmed a
copy will be provided to all stakeholders and with participants pennission has the
capacity to be a free learning resour￿.
Each single identity group met 8 times with the creative writing facilitator and 2 times
with the same facilitator in a cross-community situation. Each group took part in
several exercises to encourage individual writing skills at the same time as developing
the confidence of the participants. The resulting ple￿S of work have far surpassed
any expectations any participant had. The quality of work was incredible each piece
told a story that had previously not been shared. It was an extremely emotional
process for all who took part and alongside the laughs there were many, many tears.
Each Single Identity group was very supportive of each other and recognised the
similarities in their struggles. But when the stories were shared in the joint meetings
there was a real recognition and understanding of the same suffering experienced by
both communities. These shared meetings served very well as part of the healing the
participants so obviously experIen￿d. Not all chose to be filmed but the majority who
did really relished a completely new experience and those who didn't wish to be filmed
were still present in the sessions and enjoyed the process. The group met one more
time to celebrate their achievements in October where they enjoyed a game of Stop
the Bus and enjoyed a meal together in Farset.
The book has since been published and available in libraries across Belfast and from FBC
and The Centre for Health and Wellbeing

INTERGENERATIONAL
Men's Group
Seventeen men are involved in the programme, this is such a well-established group
with the membership remaining stable for at least 3 years. The group met on 45
occasions since the beginning of April. Every other week the men meet at a local
Leisure Centre for football training and a match. These sessions last about one hour
and 15 minutes and the group then meet for coffee and a chat in the café. Aside from
the obvious health benefits of the football some of the men are still attending the gym
at other times in the week, inspired by the exercise and their football. While there are
benefits to the physical exercise there are also benefits to the chats following the
football and the meetings on the non-footballing weeks. It provides a rare opportunity
for these men to share their problems and talk about the issues that affect their daily
lives. In the past these men have found it difficult to make social connections but feel
much more at ease in each otherfs company and able to broach sensitive issues.
There is no doubt their common love for football creates a good environment where
they feel comfortable to have these conversations. It Has been extremely difficult to
organise any re'spite trips for this group as most members work full time and often at
weekend - two respite trips took pla￿ in the last quarter- a much enjoyed and highly
competitive visit to the escape rooms in Dundonald and a day enjoying outdoor
pursuits at Todd's Leap in Ballygawley. The intensity of the day long programme really
tested the men's strength and starnina and as always, they were very competitive but
in a "friendly. way! This group has become very close - and it is heartening to witness
the very positive relationships between the 2 generations who have this project in
common whereas prior to their participation there was no opportunity to share any time
together.
Family Bonding Scheme
The Programme began in April with planning and child recruitment. Twenty young
people were registered, which meets targets. The ParentslGuardians met for the first
time in June when they were informed of their roles and responsibilities during the
programme. rhe programme provides an opportunity for the young people and older
members of their families to share new eXperIen￿S and spend positive time together
in an environment outside the usual one they share. A very full and exciting
programme was arranged in the week beginning 4 July. Attendance was excellent
with an average of 96 % overall. For most events we had at least 18 adult family
members attending. The intergenerational rapport and the respect that has been
developed is the outstanding feature of this project alongside the development of
friendships and regular and ongoing contact between individuals outside the
programme. The behaviour of the young people was excellent, and they were a credit
to their families. The activities they shared developed and enhanced their relationships
in a very positive way. There was a good balance of activities geared to meeting the
various likes and needs of the young people. During the period of lockdown there was
a window during Halloween half-term when we were able to meet and run a

programme. This was extremely well received by the Families as it was pointed out
there are many more activities and events happening in the summer but none in the
autumn or New Year. It is planned to take account of this in the planning of next year's
programme.
Drop In
We have provided a safe and secure environment where members of the local
community can seek free advi￿ andlor support on issues such as pensions or
benefits. As in previous years the vast majority of callers require redirection to the most
appropriate local servi￿. It is estimated that about 10 % require more support such
as making benefit applications or CVS or job searches on line. There is no regular
pattern in terms of numbers of callers who require support. Approximately 34 would
call into the Centre each week. Over this year of the programme we have been able
to provide counselling for 5 people through our programme run in conjunction with
Centre for Health and Wellbeing. We have.also provided complimentary therapies for
five people who dropped in. It is anticipated this pattern will continue into the future.
Maln Achievements during the year
Families Beyond Conflict has greatly developed and superseded targets in respect of
every programme. The organisation embraced the opportunity to provide an
exceptional programme that resulted in the publishing of the book
Lived
Experiences. Twenty three ladies in a cross-community situation reflected on their
experiences during the Troubles in poetry and prose. The published book provided a
tangible outcome that greatly impacted on the group and on their road to healing.
Budget transfer also enabled us to set up a new group to help alleviate the waiting list,
although only meeting monthly at present it is hoped to increase numbers and develop
the group in the future. FBC were also fortunate to secure free accredited training for
our Wednesday group who were able to undertake level 1 and 2 levels on 3 separate
courses. Finally, extra funding enabled us to run a one-off craft programme enabling
us to work, albeit for a limited time wtth a further 10 participants.
Public Benefit Requirement
The Trustees have had due regard to the Commissions Public Benefit Requirement
and ensured that all activities, courses, programmes and projects have been delivered
to meet the requirement. No truSt￿S have re￿iVed private benefit.

A Review of the Charity's financial position on 31st March 2023
On 31st March 2023 the financial position of the charity was as follows;
Income
2022
2023
Charitable Activities
£60,279
£70,978
Expenditure
Wages/Salaries
Programme Costs
Running Costs
Total
Surplusl(Deficit)
£27,539
£23,161
£8,851
£59,551
£728
£32,791
£34,176
£9,154
£76,121
{£5,143)
Deficit
The charity had a deficit of £5,143 for the year ended 31 st March 2023. This
operating deficit is a result of the charity continuing its charitable operations at the
same time as being committed to meeting the increasing needs of the people it
works with.
Funding was obtained for an extension from the Victims and Survivors Service to run
from 1st April 2023 - 31st March 2024 and it is likely that will be further extended to
March 2025. Families Beyond Conflict is also confident in renewing funding from
April 2025 and is committed to meeting the remaining deficit from sources other than
VSS over the two years.
Trustees Signature
I hereby declare that this report is a true and accurate account of the charities
operations during 2022-2023
Signature
Mrs Caroline Mo
14th October 2023
Chairperson

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