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2025-04-05-accounts

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Trustees' Annual Report for the period

Period start date Period end date 6 4 2024 5 4 2025

Section A Reference and administration details

Charity name Family Life and Relationships Trust

Other names charity is known by Registered charity number (if any) 1205095 Charity's principal address Hawking Sopers, Spithandle Lane, Steyning, West Sussex

Postcode BN44 3DY

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Trustee name Office (if any) Dates acted if not for whole
**year **
Name of person (or body) entitled
to appoint trustee (ifany)
Jeremy Allan
Jennings
Patricia Margaret
Neill
Robin Mark
Elsdon-Dew

Names of the trustees for the charity, if any, (for example, any custodian trustees)

Name Dates acted if not for whole year

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Names and addresses of advisers (Optional information) Type of adviser Name Address Name of chief executive or names of senior staff members (Optional information) Nicholas Lee Section B Structure, governance and management Description of the charity’s trusts Constitution Type of governing document (eg. trust deed, constitution) CIO How the charity is constituted (eg. trust, association, company) New trustees are appointed by resolution passed at a properly convened Trustee selection methods meeting of the charity trustees. They are selected based on their skills, (eg. appointed by, elected by) knowledge and experience needed for the effective administration of the CIO

Section B Structure, governance and management

Description of the charity’s trusts

Additional governance issues (Optional information)

You may choose to include additional information, where relevant, about:

Section C Objectives and activities

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The object of the charity for the public benefit is the advancement of the Christian religion through the provision of retreat spaces to be used by Summary of the objects of the those in leadership roles in the Church of England, and other churches in charity set out in its communion with it, to promote spiritual growth, support healthy marriages governing document and family relationships, restore mental health and promote wellbeing

The Charity has provided a safe and secluded retreat space, in the form of a Cottage, for clergy in the Church of England and other Christian denominations, in addition to personalised support and free access to the Family Life courses produced by Nicky and Sila Lee with Alpha International.

Clergy and other church leaders and their families have been able to use the Cottage and its outside grounds as a retreat space. Nicky and Sila Lee, who live nearby, have provided pastoral support, especially in the area of family life. They have made their online Marriage and Parenting Summary of the main Courses available for any of these couples and parents and have been activities undertaken for the available to conduct aspects of these courses in person, if preferred and public benefit in relation to requested by the clergy. They have also offered advice and training on these objects (include within using these courses in the clergy's home church and local community. this section the statutory declaration that trustees have had regard to the guidance issued by the Charity Commission on public benefit)

Additional details of objectives and activities (Optional information)

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You may choose to include further statements, where relevant, about:

Section D Achievements and performance

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Section D Achievements and performance The Cottage was occupied for 146 days/nights over this period by 32 Summary of the main couples / families / individuals in church leadership positions. They all achievements of the charity reported the benefit to their mental and spiritual wellbeing and (where during the year relevant) of the importance to their marriage / family life of this retreat away from their normal duties and the pressures of ministry. Nicky and Sila Lee met personally to give pastoral support to 22 couples/families/individuals during their stay. These were some of the comments made at the end of their stay: Local clergy couple: ‘Thank you so much. Less than 24 hours has been such a blessing to us – retreating from everyday life, everyday noise - and to be still. We are leaving so refreshed and renewed, both individually and as a couple.’ A clergy couple working in an inner-city parish: ‘We cannot express enough how truly grateful we are for the blessing of spending a week at this cottage… This getaway marked our first full week away in five years. It was exactly what we needed at the present time. We didn’t fully realise how much we were yearning for this time to reconnect and recharge… Every moment spent here has helped us feel rested and refreshed, and it has truly strengthened our marriage in ways we did not anticipate.’ Wife of clergy family with two young children: ‘We are heading home rested, closer to each other as a family and feeling hopeful’ Clergy couple in December: ‘ We’re all ready now for a busy Christmas season and we will certainly be back when some more recovery is needed!’ Clergy family post-Christmas: ‘Your cottage was just perfect for some peace, rest and family time. It’s not easy to find affordable breaks, so this has been invaluable for us.’ Clergy couple working in East End of London: ‘Thank you for this beautiful home to enjoy time away from the intensity of frontline inner-city life… We leave feeling refreshed and encouraged.’ Clergyman from inner-city Liverpool: ‘Thank you so much for the invaluable support this house and you guys are. This house is a deep breath for the soul.’ Wife of clergy couple in South London: ‘What a gift to be able to take time away from busy London life and the constant nature of ministry to be in a cottage surrounded by and ministered to by nature.’ Local clergy family: Wife: ‘What a stunning, refreshing, joyful, peaceful time here at Hawking Sopers. A place where you can really stop and breathe, so refreshing for the soul, seems rare these days.’ Husband: ‘After a fruitful but long winter, this is just what we needed as a family – concentrated time together catching up and connecting.’

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Section E Financial review

Brief statement of the

The charity aims to keep enough reserves to cover three months’ expenditure

charity’s policy on reserves

Details of any funds materially in deficit

Further financial review details (Optional information)

The CEO of the charity, Nicky Lee, and his wife, Sila, write to potential You may choose to include donors when funds are needed. additional information, where All income to the charity has been to used to pay for necessary relevant about:

All income to the charity has been to used to pay for necessary expenditure on the cottage, mainly comprising rent, council tax, cleaning, electricity and heating oil.

Section F Other optional information

Section G Declaration

The trustees declare that they have approved the trustees’ report above.

Signed on behalf of the charity’s trustees

Signature(s) Full name(s) Position (eg Secretary, Chair, etc)

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Charity Name No (if any) Receipts and payments accounts CC16a For the period Period start date Period end date To from 6.4.24 5.4.25

Section A Receipts and payments

A1 Receipts Unrestricted
funds
to the nearest
£
21 752
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21 752
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21 752
15 000
2 508
1 214
2 347
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899
207
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22 564
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22 564
- 812
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3 613
2 801
Restricted
funds
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funds
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Total funds
to the nearest £
21 752
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21 752
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15 000
2 508
1 214
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- 812
Total funds
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21 752
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Last year
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Donations 21 752 -
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Sub total(Gross income for
AR)
21 752 -
A2 Asset and investment sales,
(see table).
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Sub total - -
Total receipts
A3 Payments
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Rent 15 000 -
Council tax 2 508 -
Electricity 1 214 -
Cleaning 2 347 -
Firewood 265 -
Heatingoil 899 -
Water 207 -
Bank charges 27 -
Waste removal 97 -
**Sub total ** 22 564 -
A4 Asset and investment
purchases, (see table)
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Total payments
Net of receipts/(payments)
A5 Transfers between funds
A6 Cash funds last year end
Cash funds this year end
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3 613 - - 3 613 -
2 801 - - 2 801 -

CCXX R1 accounts (SS)

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Section B Statement of assets and liabilities at the end of the period

Categories
Signed by one or two trustees on
behalf of all the trustees
B1 Cash funds
B2 Other monetary assets
B4 Assets retained for the
charity’s own use
B5 Liabilities
B3 Investment assets
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Details
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NatWest current account 90364988
Natwest 35 day account 90364953
Details
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Total cash funds
(agree balances with receipts and payments
account(s))
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Unrestricted
funds
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funds
to nearest £
to nearest £
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2 801
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Amount due
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Current value
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When due
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Date of
approval

CCXX R2 accounts (SS)

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