Annual Report Adorddiad Blynyddol 2020 –2021 Registered Charity number 1160655 Rhif Elusen Cofrestredig 1160655 

To support families with a child aged between 0 –14 living within the County Borough of Wrexham. 

I gefnogi teuluoedd gyda phlant rhwng 0 a 14 yn byw yn ardal Cyngor  Bwrdeistref Wrexham 1 



## **Contents** 

|**Item**<br>Chair’s Foreword<br>3<br>Manager’s Refection<br>4<br>Treasurer’s Report<br>6<br>Report of the Trustees and Unaudited Statements<br>7<br>Management Committee<br>12<br>Who Have We Been Working With?<br>13<br>Supported Family Story<br>20<br>Volunteer Development Strategy<br>21<br>Counselling<br>23<br>Thank You<br>24|**Page**|
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## **Chair’s Foreword** 

A warm welcome to everyone and thank you for joining us for our 2021 AGM. 

Once again, we have experienced difficult times this year with all the restrictions we have had to follow. It means that it has not been possible to deliver a complete service to our families.  The main casualty of this has been our groups which I know a lot of families depend on. We have lost BBCCIN funding due to the pandemic, which had a huge impact on our families, especially through the summer holidays, but I am glad to say that our play support groups are now recommencing face to face. 

I have to say a big thank you to Mary, Jo and our team of dedicated staff and valued volunteers, for the way they have pulled together to improvise and ensure that services have been delivered in a variety of ways. We are now supporting more families than we have ever done. 

I also want to thank our Funders who have stood by us and had faith in us to evolve through the difficulties of the pandemic. I am thankful that there seems to be light at the end of the tunnel and normal services should hopefully be resumed in the near future. 

I am proud to say that Family Friends is growing and we are an integral part of the 3[rd] sector in Wrexham. We have strong positive relationships with many networking agencies and we are receiving referrals from a wider range of agencies than ever before. 

Our staff and volunteers are highly qualified and the organisation recognises the value for continuous staff development to meet the ever changing needs of the community. This ensures that each strand of our service is robust, professional and compliments the service delivery as a whole, so families have access to everything that could help them achieve improved life choices and better outcomes. 

One area we have developed in is our ability to offer counselling for children and adults. We have 2 qualified counsellors at present who are providing this valuable service. Some of this work is face to face and some by telephone, as always the uncertainty of future funding throws a shadow over our service but we hope we will be able to continue and sustain current delivery. 

As we move forward, I feel very optimistic at what we will achieve in the future. We have a fantastic workforce and dedicated Trustees, plus with the continued support of our funders I am confident that we will be helping to support even more families in the year ahead. 

Margaret Peet Chair of Trustees 

## **Manager’s Refection** 

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Another year has gone and the pandemic continues to cause disruption and chaos to our families, service delivery and uncertainty for future funding. 

As a team, we have managed to work together to continue supporting families who need us. We have evolved and stood up to the threats of Covid and improvised our service by delivering home visiting via the garden, groups on line and spent hours on the phone, Zoom and WhatsApp. Although this has improved all our staff technology skills,  we  have had to  postpone some  of  our  volunteer support  due to  the risks involved by the pandemic. We have lost and gained some volunteers and some have chosen not to home visit anymore but are happy to provide phone or online support. This  has  had  an  impact  on  our  organisation  but  it  has  also  provided  us  with opportunities to utilise our volunteers in so many other ways, so they all still remain valued members of our team. 

Let’s just think for a moment, how well we have all done. Last year we supported 115 families with every one of them achieving an improvement in at least one of their identified  needs.  On  October  7[th] 2021  -we  reached  our  1000[th] referral  since  we recorded  referrals  via  using  our  database.  From  2007-2011  there  were  only  86 referrals recorded, so for the next 10 years we received 914 referrals. This just shows how we have grown to what we are today, a valued effective service that helps so many families facing difficulties. 

I  feel,  together  we  are  a  community  of  support  who  collectively  strive  for  best outcomes for families who may not be as lucky as you or I. 

Who knows what the future holds for us at Family Friends, we lost BBCCIN funding last year and this had a major impact on not only our delivery but more importantly it had a major impact on the families we support. Without us able to run fun clubs through the summer some children missed out playing with friends and enjoying a break from some  of  the  issues  they  encounter  every  day.    Due  to  uncertain  funding  and tightening of budgets, plus the ongoing pandemic we still have difficult times ahead, but we will carry on until we are ‘the last men standing’! We need to focus on the positives, we strive to develop new skills in our staff and volunteers to meet the ever changing  needs  of  the  community  as  we  know  this  helps  make  such  a  positive difference to many lives. 

Sadly, we lost one of our valued volunteers and Trustees earlier this year-her name was Margaret Roberts and over the 20 years volunteering with us she supported over 50 families, she made such a difference to so many and imagine, if they had all attended her funeral-there would not have been enough seating room! At the funeral, it was a proud moment for me when her son made a speech saying how much Family Friends meant to her, he explained that anything her own family needed had to work around her visits of her supported family or the organisation!   She will be sorely missed by all of us at Family Friends and I am sure she is still looking over us all with affection but a stern look on her face if she doesn’t agree with something we are doing � 

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Finally, I would like to thank everyone from the funders who continue to have faith in us, the Trustees and advisories for the support they have given me and the organisation over the last year, the volunteers who all bring skills and experience to the organisation and lastly the staff team without whom I could not do my job, they are the cogs that make the organisation so successful in its delivery. 

## Thank-you 

Mary Roblin, Manager 

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## **’ - Treasurer s Report  2020 2021** 

I present to you the accounts for the financial year ending 31[st] March 2021, which have been audited and found to be in order by an independent accountant. 

The Receipts and Payments Account shows how Family Friends money has been spent. The Statement of Assets & Liabilities shows where our funds are deposited and summarises designated monies for which we are liable.  We operate two bank accounts, a current account and a charities investment account for which we receive interest. 

The pandemic has seriously affected our ability to hold fundraising events, but it gave us the opportunity to apply for special COVID 19 funding from various sources. This funding enabled us to supply activity packs, increase support, continue and increase our counselling service, with the receipt of further one year grants we are able to continue with these into the 2021/2022 financial year. 

We operate an ongoing staggered funding plan and have been awarded a three year grant of £166,000 from The Henry Smith Charity starting 1[st] June 2021.  Many thanks must go to the Chair and our dedicated staff team, who along with myself, took part in the appraisal process resulting in this tremendous recognition of Family Friends’ work in our community. 

On behalf of the Trustees, I thank all our funders and donors for their support, without which we would be unable to provide our much valued service. 

Wendy E Williams 

Treasurer 

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REGISTERED CHARITY NUMBER: 1160655 

REPORT OF THE TRUSTEES AND UNAUDITED STATEMENTS FOR THE YEAR ENDED 31[st] MARCH 2021 

FOR 

FAMILY FRIENDS (WREXHAM) 

Guy Walmsley Limited Chartered Accountants 3 Grove Road Wrexham LL11 1DY 

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## **FAMILY FRIENDS (WREXHAM)** 

## **REFERENCE AND ADMINISTRATIVE DETAILS FOR THE YEAR ENDED 31[ST] MARCH 2021** 

## **TRUSTEES** 

M Roberts W Williams R Woodcock B Griffiths M Peet M Williams Andrea Watson – appointed 10/12/2020 

## **PRINCIPAL ADDRESS** 

The Salvation Army Premises Garden Road Wrexham LL11 2NU 

## **REGISTERED CHARITY** 1160655 **NUMBER** 

## **INDEPENDENT EXAMINER** 

Guy Walmsley Limited Chartered Accountants 3 Grove Road Wrexham LL11 1DY 

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## **INDEPENDENT EXAMINER'S REPORT TO THE TRUSTEES OF FAMILY FRIENDS (WREXHAM)** 

## **Independent examiner's report to the trustees of Family Friends (Wrexham)** 

I report to the charity trustees on my examination of the accounts of Family Friends (Wrexham) (the Trust) for the year ended 31 March 2021. 

## **Responsibilities and basis of report** 

As the charity trustees of the Trust you are responsible for the preparation of the accounts in accordance with the requirements of the Charities Act 2011 ('the Act'). 

I report  in  respect of my examination of the Trust's accounts carried out under section 145 of the Act and in carrying out my examination  I  have followed  all applicable Directions given by the Charity Commission under section 145(5)(b) of the Act. 

## **Independent examiner's statement** 

I have completed my examination. I confirm that no material matters have come to my attention in connection with the examination giving me cause to believe that in any material respect: 

1. accounting records were not kept in respect of the Trust as required by section 130 of the Act; or 

2. the accounts do not accord with those records. 

I have no concerns and have come across no other matters in connection with the examination to which attention should be drawn in this report in order to enable a proper understanding of the accounts to be reached. 

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## **FAMILY FRIENDS(WREXHAM) CHARITY NUMBER: 1160655 FOR THE YEAR ENDED 31[ST] MARCH 2021 RECEIPTS AND PAYMENTS ACCOUNTS** 

## NOTES 

## **Basis of preparation** 

**These accounts have been prepared on I receipts and payments basis** 

|**Basis of preparation**<br>**TheseaccountshavebeenpreparedonI receipts**<br>**andpaymentsbasis**|||||
|---|---|---|---|---|
||2021||2020||
||£|£|£|£|
|**RECEIPTS**|||||
|**Statutory Funding and Slippage**|||||
|WCBC Families First|53,119.4||58,850.15||
||8||||
|ESOL|19,863.7||19,081.24||
|**Grants and Funding**|6||||
|BBC ChildreninNeed|13,003.0||25,506.50||
||0||||
|Community County councilsupport|4,975||200.00||
||00||||
|Community Foundation Wales|12,907.0||10,000.00||
||0||||
|Lloyds BankFoundation|||12,846.00||
|Methodistinsurance|64.35||||
|Moondance|20,000.0||||
||0||||
|Nationallottery communityfund|10,000.||||
||00||||
|StepsTraining& Monthly Groups|8,778.||6 673.64||
||00||||
|Steve Morgan Foundation|27,833.3||2,206.67||
||7||||
|VSEFsmall grants|13,293.||||
||00||||
|WCBC-rise andshineprovision|77.0||||
||0||||
|Youth lead grant|1,000.0||||
|**GeneratedIncome**|0||||
|Bank& COIF Charity FundInterest|||420.16||
||69.98||||
|Other income|||3.37||
|Fundraising/Donations|623.30||6.680.22||
|**TOTAL RECEIPTS**||185,607.24||142,467.9|
|||||5|
|**PAYMENTS**|||||
|Costs -|1,329.5||1,088.92||
|Befriending|9||318.1t||
|Costs - Play<br>Support<br>Costs - Family Fun Club|2,7366<br>2||2,203.01||
|Costs - Care and Share|||12451||
|Costs - Events/Trips|400.6||3,335 22||
||0||||
|Costs – ESOL|||1,932.93||
|Costs -  Family Education|||40.04||
|Costs –Steps|212.3||712.07||
||5||||
|Costs - FreedomProgramme/domesticabuse|||||
||||803.55||
|Costs - RespiteSupport Group|739.9||||
||6||451.88||
|Rent|4,895.2||4,87100||
||5||||
|Travelling|2774||||
||0||||
|Volunteer Travel|136,5||1,636.83||
||4||||
|Volunteer/Family Training|384.4||999.71||
||6||||
|StafTravel|1,852.8||2,803.37||
||5||||
|Postageand Carriage|108.4||547.15||
||6||||
|Ofice Stationery, photocopier andtelephone|3,320.6||4,763 46||



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|costs<br>9<br>Booketc<br>20.49<br>93.87<br>Computer and Software<br>2,880.<br>10<br>1,651.70<br>Equipment<br>291.3<br>0<br>3,139.69<br>Resources<br>1,482.8<br>9<br>76.46<br>PremisesExpenses<br>91.80<br>Insurance<br>840.77<br>833.04<br>Refreshments<br>18.50<br>451.04<br>Sundry Expenses<br>16549<br>168.40<br>PPEand cleaning<br>372.8<br>5<br>AGM costs<br>228.13<br>Staf Salaries<br>110,397.5<br>5<br>90,737.52<br>Sessional/Playworker<br>1,560.8<br>6<br>11,061.02<br>Pension Costs<br>14,843.2<br>2<br>9,654.63<br>Audit Fees<br>360.0<br>0<br>596.30<br>Consultancy Fees<br>1,272.8<br>0<br>39.70<br>Payroll Charges<br>679.0<br>0<br>554.50<br>Staf Training Costs<br>3,155.2<br>7<br>943.00<br>Room Hire<br>552.61<br>970.75<br>Fundraising<br>expenses WCBC<br>claw back<br> 3<br>070.20<br>30.00|costs<br>9<br>Booketc<br>20.49<br>93.87<br>Computer and Software<br>2,880.<br>10<br>1,651.70<br>Equipment<br>291.3<br>0<br>3,139.69<br>Resources<br>1,482.8<br>9<br>76.46<br>PremisesExpenses<br>91.80<br>Insurance<br>840.77<br>833.04<br>Refreshments<br>18.50<br>451.04<br>Sundry Expenses<br>16549<br>168.40<br>PPEand cleaning<br>372.8<br>5<br>AGM costs<br>228.13<br>Staf Salaries<br>110,397.5<br>5<br>90,737.52<br>Sessional/Playworker<br>1,560.8<br>6<br>11,061.02<br>Pension Costs<br>14,843.2<br>2<br>9,654.63<br>Audit Fees<br>360.0<br>0<br>596.30<br>Consultancy Fees<br>1,272.8<br>0<br>39.70<br>Payroll Charges<br>679.0<br>0<br>554.50<br>Staf Training Costs<br>3,155.2<br>7<br>943.00<br>Room Hire<br>552.61<br>970.75<br>Fundraising<br>expenses WCBC<br>claw back<br> 3<br>070.20<br>30.00||
|---|---|---|
|**TOTAL PAYMENTS**<br>**NET OF RECEIPTS/(PAYMENTS)**<br>**Cash fundslast yearend**<br>**Cash & Bankfunds at 31st March 2021 : 2020**|158,357.77<br>27<br>,<br>249<br>101,100.79<br>128,3<br>5<br>0<br>.2<br>6|147,953.3<br>1|
|||(5,485.36<br>)<br>106,58615|
|||101<br>,<br>100|
|||.79|



## **FAMILY FRIENDS(WREXHAM)** 

**CHARITY NUMBER: 1160655 FOR THE YEAR ENDED 31[ST] MARCH 2021 STATEMENT OF ASSETS AND LIABILITIES AT 31[ST] MARCH 2021** 

|**CASH FUNDS**<br>Petty cash<br>Bank Deposits<br>COIF Charity Fund Account<br>**Total cash**<br>**Funds**<br>**OTHER MONETARY ASSETS**<br>Insuranceprepayment<br>**LIABILITIES**<br>Independent ExaminersFee<br>OwingforPhotocopier<br>Owingfor RoomHire<br>OwingMarch2021PAYE<br>Owing for stafexpenses<br>OwingforInsurance<br>Owing for telephonecharges<br>**MONETARY ASSETS REPRESENTED BY:**<br>**Designated Funds**<br>Staf Redundancy<br>Photocopier lease o/s|**202**<br>**1**<br>£<br>130.75<br>49,627.51<br>78,592.00<br>**128,350.26**<br>**406.12**<br>350.00<br>37.69<br>0.00<br>2,562.46<br>196.96<br>433.43<br>10.03<br>**3,590.57**<br>18,437.00<br>700.00|**202**<br>**0**<br>£<br>322.75<br>42,778.<br>04<br>58,000.0<br>0<br>**101,100.**<br>**79**<br>**0.00**<br>350.00<br>48.16<br>539.25<br>0.00<br>0.00<br>0.00<br>0.00|
|---|---|---|
|||**937.41**<br>13,641.00<br>1,000.00|



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|MinimumClosedownCost(5 months)[2020 4|59,542.36|48,606.05|
|---|---|---|
|months]|||
|Peninsular|1,521.36|0.00|
|Independent ExaminersFee|350.00|350.00|
|**RestrictedMonies**|||
|ESOL|0. 00|1,975.7|
|||2|
|BBC Children In Need|0.00|2,167.17|
|E.S. Pay|1, 365.18|816.00|
|FSWPost|2,234.70|2,234.70|
|SteveMorgan Foundation|2,326.68|612.23|
|Tampon Tax|1,027.93|9,665.27|
|Family First Slippage Monies|0.00|61.47|
|COIFTransfer|0.00|5,247.05|
|MoondanceFoundation|20,000.00|0.00|
|CFW|8,730.89|0.00|
|YLG|650.02|0.00|
|student Re-imbursement|79.99|0.00|
|**Un Restricted Funds**|||
|FundralslngandBank Interest|10,210.38|14,578.02|
||**127,176.49**|**100,954.68**|
|**FreeMonies**|**1,173.77**|**146.11**|



## **FAMILY FRIENDS** 

## **Management Committee 2020/2021** 

**Trustees (voting members)** 

**Chairperson Margaret Peet Vice Chair Mel Williams Treasurer                                           Wendy Williams Secretary Beulah Griffiths** 

**Individual Volunteer members Ruth Woodock Andrea Stevenson** 

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## **Representation on the Management Committee in an advisory capacity** 

## **Prevention & Inclusion Service Julie Williams – Ty Ni Family Centre** 

**Retiring Trustees 2019-20 Margaret Roberts - deceased-3[rd] June 2021** 

## **Who have we been working with? (health and social Stresses breakdown)** 

Family Friends works with a wide variety of issues and is always growing in skills and expertise to meet families were they are in a way that helps to alleviate those needs. Below is a breakdown of the kinds of health related issues we have worked with this year: 


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AGM Health Related Issues<br>AGM Health<br>Health Related Issue<br>Related Issues<br>Number of Families<br>Adult depression  31<br>Adult mental illness 28<br>Adult physical illness  6<br>Adult with physical disability 12<br>Anxiety/panic attacks 35<br>Child depression 6<br>Child development delay 12<br>Child physical illness 4<br>Child undergoing assessment-behaviour/health  30<br>concern<br>Child with physical disability over 5 7<br>**----- End of picture text -----**<br>


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AGM Health Related Issues<br>AGM Health<br>Health Related Issue<br>Related Issues<br>Child with physical disability under 5 2<br>Diagnosed ADHD 6<br>Diagnosed Autism  8<br>Family Suffering stress 41<br>Hearing Impairment  9<br>Learning difficulties children 12<br>Learning difficulties parents 4<br>Pregnant Mum 1<br>Self harming behaviour 15<br>Isolation & anxiety due to pandemic 54<br>Sight Impairment 5<br>**----- End of picture text -----**<br>


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Protecting children and supporting families most at risk is something we care passionately about here at family friends. Below is a table that breaks down the types of social stresses families we work with have been facing over the last year. As you can see the list is very varied and presents some real challenges to the skills of our committed staff team. We have been able to do some key work with families most at risk to stop things escalating. 


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AGM Social Stresses<br>AGM Social<br>Social Stresses<br>Stresses<br>Number of<br>Families<br>Care & support 10<br>Child subject to TAC 16<br>Child taken off Child In Need 3<br>Children on Child protection register 7<br>Children taken off child protection register this  11<br>year<br>Education issues 15<br>Ethnic issues 14<br>Family in debt 28<br>Family on benefits-excl Child benefit 31<br>Family Supported in the past 11<br>History of offending 11<br>Parent In prison 20<br>Physically isolated<br>20<br>Socially isolated 16<br>Victim of crime 10<br>Young Carer in family residence 6<br>**----- End of picture text -----**<br>


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**Facts & Figures 2020-2021-What a busy Year!!** 

Referrals Received = 86 ~~>~~ Referrals Returned due to full capacity or 22 reduced needs > 3K Number of families supported including 115 some carrying over from last year > 3K Who have we been supporting? Children adults 

**Our reputation is growing** 

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As we have grown over the years we have established ourselves as a reliable service to refer to from other agencies. As testimony to our reputation and successful partnership working in the community as a useful organisation in families’ lives, this year we received referrals from 21 different referring agencies with the top three being: 

WFIS- Wrexham family Information service-Most referrals Self referrals & TAC- Together Achieve Change-equal second SS- Social Services/Children’s Services-third highest 

## **Finding a place in the heart of the community** 

This year again we have a high record of self referrals with feedback of reasoning for this is families felt the pandemic left them isolated with many agencies unavailable to contact or drop in. This demonstrates that the community know who we are, what we do and that we have been approachable and easy to access. The referrals are for a wide range of help: 


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Self referrals<br>Domestic abuse programmes Steps programmes<br>Home visiting support<br>**----- End of picture text -----**<br>


Throughout the year we have delivered a wide variety of sessions that cover many issues and offer bespoke support and care to families who need it most. Here is the breakdown of everything we have achieved this year: 

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32 Play support sessions (incl delivered<br>activity packs due to Covid)<br>**----- End of picture text -----**<br>



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32 ESOL sessions<br>**----- End of picture text -----**<br>


14 Care and share/Walk and Talk sessions 

1  Family Trip to park Hall farm 

Family Fun Club Sessions 

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4 Freedom and Freedom plus groups 3 Steps Programmes<br>**----- End of picture text -----**<br>



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41 Respite sessions either face to face<br>or Zoom<br>**----- End of picture text -----**<br>


## **Below are some of the things our families have said about us over the year. Take a look:** 

 Listened 

- Showed confidence in me 

- Seemed to understand how I felt 

- Helped me to laugh again 

- Made me feel comfortable and relaxed 

- Helped me realise I wasn’t alone 

- Shared experiences with me 

- Boosted me when I needed it 

- Helped me work out my feelings 

- Accepted me for who I am, faults and all 

- Showed me the choices I had 

- Helped me look for the good as well as think about the bad 

- Showed that I didn't have to cope and do it all on my own 

- Was honest with me 

- Wasn’t shocked 

- Was someone to talk to 

- Became my friend 

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 Was a safety valve 

- Sounded as if they cared 

 Gave me encouragement 

 Didn’t judge me 

 Asked the right questions 

 Was on my side 

 Gave me hope 

In our recent audit we have heard from many of our families about how the support they are receiving right now today is making a difference in their lives. Family interviews reveal that: 

“Going really well. Jane is helping me a lot with issues with child’s school” 

“Helped me with neighbours next door.  Without Jane I wouldn’t be where I am now” 

“Fantastic I love her, she’s great. She has helped me out a lot financially and emotionally. She has supported me with kids with funding to get kids to do things. I couldn’t praise her enough.” 

“Jane’s awesome she is in touch every week via phone or text she is always on hand to call. She brings things for the kids to do and is always thinking about the boys. She doesn’t do things for me but encourages me to do things for myself. She is so proud of what I have achieved” 

“Young carers have been put in place by Laura which has been a great help. She is really lovely and is always there for me if anything is worrying me. She helps me deal with my social worker a lot if I am having any trouble”. 

Mary is Brilliant. Massively helpful. I don’t think she realises what a massive help she is being to me. She has made me believe in myself and believe that I can be a lone parent” 

“Going brilliantly with Vicky. She’s brilliant. She gets me out the house and she is just talking to me and gives me space to talk.” 

“Donna is helping me a lot. She is on call to take my child to school and helps me do my shopping. She is also helpful to talk to.” 

“My daughter is enjoying counselling with Lisa and says it the best day of week.” 

“Lisa is Helping me with general house things and taking me out. Just support really. It’s going brilliant, it’s like I have made a good friend.” 

## **Supported Family Story** 

I was in a very dark place before Family Friends became a part of my life. I suffer from complex PTSD which effects my emotional stability and self-esteem immensely. 

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I was very lost and very much estranged from children. Due to my many traumas I learned to shut down and block out emotions etc suffering many panic attacks and flashbacks which were terrifying. 

The support I have received from Family Friends has been invaluable to say the least. The straight talking, motivation and reassurance from Jo has lifted my barriers enormously. 

The communication with my kids has radically changed for the better and they can see a huge difference in me. 

I still suffer panic attacks and flashbacks but I have been given methods on how to manage them which has increased by emotional stability and self-esteem radically. 

It’s very difficult to put down in words what effects Family Friends has made to my life and how valuable Jo is in my life. I am extremely grateful for all they do and continue to do. I see Family Friends as a massive asset to the community and I cannot thank them enough. 

This Family would like to remain anonymous 

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## **Volunteer Development Strategy** 

This year our recruitment drive was again for training online as we know how essential they are to the impact Family Friends can have in our community. We revamped the volunteer Preparation course and despite lockdown we managed to run a course virtually recruiting 9 new volunteers!! We are currently delivering our first face to face preparation training course for 5 volunteers and we have 5 waiting who cannot do in the day but will start soon. This is great news for the charity and shows how much a part of the community Family Friends is becoming as some of the volunteers are families who have been helped in the past and want to get involved and give something back. 

## **Hazel’s Volunteer Story** 

I  was  so  pleased  in  October  2017  to  receive  my  certificate  from  Family  Friends showing that I had completed the Preparation Course for Volunteers. However, when I made the decision to apply to join the course, I had no idea and could not have envisaged all the fun, laughter, learning, knowledge, sharing, empathy, self-worth, respect and friendships that would grow both during and after the course. 

I had a friend who I knew was a volunteer for FF; she often mentioned how much she enjoyed this work and suggested I might enjoy it and why didn’t I give the Course for Volunteers a try. I can never thank this friend enough for introducing me to Family Friends. 

I remember feeling “nervous anticipation” the first time I drove to the family I was going  to  support.  However,  from  the  training  I  had  done  and  the  support  and encouragement I was receiving from FF, there was also a sense of excitement and assurance that FF believed in me. Whilst helping and supporting my family I found that I personally grew in my own understanding and experience of what makes family life for others and how, in listening and talking together, as well as being of practical help, a very special relationship develops. 

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I have also enjoyed helping with homework club at FF offices and fun club and holiday club, the list of how this organisation supports families seems endless. I find the staff of FF amazing in their ability to provide all this support in such a loving, caring, professional network of staff, volunteers and supported families. It is a testimony to their success that members of families who have been supported go on to become volunteers themselves. 

I am a retired primary school teacher, married just over three years ago and enjoy a busy, active lifestyle. FF is very much part of this, where staff and volunteers often get together to share new learning or social events. Staff, volunteers and families are always ready to share a fun day out together. Even in these present times of lockdown volunteers feel valued as we are encouraged and laugh together, sharing things such as zooming and quizzing with other FF “friends”. 

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## **Qualifed Counselling ofered for free to those in desperate need** 

Our Counselling project has gone from strength to strength and clearly compliments our current service delivery. Hopefully funding will allow for us to continue and grow to meet the need in the community. Services like this have high waiting lists county wide and our waiting list is growing, but we are proud to have been able to alleviate stress for 14 women, children and men throughout the very challenging times 2020 has brought our way. Counselling has been done over the phone, virtually and face to face to ensure those who need it can access it no matter what social restrictions we may be facing. 

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It just leaves us to say a huge _THANK-YOU_ to everyone who has been a part of Family Friends and made it what it is today, you/we have all made a difference to so many lives and will continue to thrive, regardless of what may come our way! 

## _THANK-YOU_ 

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